That feeling you get when your blog site has been hacked…
Several months ago, I got some strange emails from members of my mailing list asking me WTF those pictures were on my homepage. Upon doing a little digging, I saw that I had been hacked! I immediately updated all my secret codes and passwords, but then I was just too shattered to start over. So much was happening in my life on so many fronts that I JUST COULDN’T. Now, much time has passed, and I feel ready to begin again.
I recently returned from the most life-altering trip after a couple years of staying put. After experiencing 5 failed vacations, I called a halt to travel until I had a really good reason to do so. That reason was the opening of my son, Joe’s, new restaurant in San Francisco. Not only was I long overdue for a getaway, but I hadn’t seen him in months while he worked hard to complete the process of opening a place from the ground up. He began his cooking career during his undergrad education, working whenever he could to support himself as a college student, and realized that his dream lay in the possibility of having his own restaurant one day. In 2010, he came to me to say that he had a job offer in San Francisco and asked for my blessings. He was 23 and I couldn’t say “Yes!” fast enough. At what other age could a person do something so crazy and awesome? He reminded me of my younger self in that moment. He loaded everything he could onto his small motorcycle and off he went – he didn’t even have a cell phone, but his dream was enough to keep him safe and help him on his way.
The Adventure Begins, 2010
Here is the result: https://archive.ph/QOIVP
Now, back home, I am refreshed and rested and ready to begin the rest of my life. I have always felt that the New Year begins in September (perhaps from my family’s observance of Rosh Hoshana, or the inevitable beginning of the school year) and I look forward to my New Year to come.
My husband and I have been living in an apartment since December of 2023, and to say it has been an adjustment is an understatement. We love the place, the location, the lake, the pool, the lack of maintenance, and so much more. But moving from a very large house with endless rooms and gardens to an apartment, albeit a very large apartment, has been an eye-opener. I am now in search of a more fitting solution for us – ideally, 2 apartments in the same complex. We are located right between both of our other kids’ families, so I don’t want to go far. This is a quest-in-progress, so I will keep you posted.
This year I rediscovered swimming, an old favorite activity. When I swim, I enter a weightless meditative space, with thoughts, questions, problems, dinner ideas, etc. rolling through my consciousness; when I am done, I leave them all in the deep end and emerge refreshed, invigorated, and ready for whatever comes next. With the pool here available during the summer I became quite spoiled, but for the rest of the year I go to the Y – there are three locations within a 15 minute drive. I even met a group there that plays cribbage on Thursdays, so I can play a few hands and then go downstairs to the pool.
I wish you all a happy New Year, happy autumn, a peaceful life, and hope for our future.
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